I am COUNTING on the bolded above being the case, since that is the only major 'hard part' engine related mod I plan to do right away, but do NOT want to start a whole new flame fest by stating which one I plan on buying, nor WHY it is my choice.
I will probably do a CBE as well, just for a little more sound than stock, and some minor weight savings.
Before I came on this forum, I was planning on keeping EVERYTHING factory stock, save for wheels/tires, suspension mods, and reduced throw shifter (the only very noticeable weak point, to me at least, during my test drives of the car).
About the points you make as to the whole 'STAGE' thing, I could not agree more.
I came from a platform which has NEVER used any form of standardized (are they across EVERY 'tuner' type platform??) 'stages' for mods/tuning, and probably never will.
We just did certain mods in a given progression without grouping them together in any way, so I had to look up, search, and call people just to know what the hell everyone is referring to with this stage stuff (I was NEVER into the whole sport compact/import/tuner/turbo scene like most were on this site).
I even thought that the stage 3 everyone talks about HAD TO include a bigger aftermarket turbo, and supporting mods. LOL