I shouldn't even entertain this discussion, but I don't really have anything better to do. For reference, I have ATR (and so do others) so it's very easy for me (and all of them) to see straight through your tuning 'guess'.
Since when is Lord Cobb the only people that say not to run an overly-aggressive tune? I seem to hear it from exactly every single pro-tuner and most every semi-knowledgeable tune owner. Have we all been brainwashed by Lord Cobb, the creator of all tunes ever?
Exactly how many degrees of timing should I apply, and exactly where, to the 30+ ignition tables? Is this just to a specific row or column? Should I just add this to the global offset and be done? Why is this the only aspect of a tune that needs changed?
This intercooler setting that the ECU used to 'make itself happy with the results'-where exactly is that? Should I turn 'the setting' up or down? Exactly what are the 'different temps and inputs' used to make these logic decisions and how do I know that my changes are correct?
If you're going to run stage 2 on stage 1 parts, why not just run stage 3? I mean, that's just one additional part as well. If all you have to do is drive more easily, then, by your logic, there's no difference.
And honestly, who uses a more aggressive tune just so they can be easier on the car while driving? I've never heard of someone adding a tune so they could drive more softly.
I know I'm a jerk for asking these questions or giving advice, but you clearly don't know what you're talking about. We're trying to help you, but you don't want to listen and seem to think you know about things that you clearly don't. I understand not having the cash to instantly plop down on everything, but sometimes it's worth waiting long enough to save and do things correctly.
Are you going to blow your motor instantly for running an overly-aggressive tune? No. Are you going to cause unforseen damage/stress that doesn't manifest itself until later? Your chances are much higher. In a nutshell, that basically covers it.
It's your car, have fun with it.