Ditto.
How about a 5 speed zx3 and let him build it up. He could end up with a cool little car, learn a lot, and start building his tool box all at the same time. If he's not interested in doing that, get him a mini-van, he'll be just as happy. Also, get him involved in autox. It's good training and I feel it reduces their urge to show off on the street because they develop self confidence and don't feel the need to prove anything.