Guys, there is no such thing as a grade 8 metric bolt. Metric bolts have a class associated with them which consists of two numbers separated by a period. The first number is a function (100 x the number) of the ultimate tensile strength (newtons per square mm). 1 N/mm2 = 145.038 psi. The second number is 10 times the nominal ratio of the yield strength to the tensile strength. For example a Class 8.8 bolt has a tensile strength of 800 N/mm2, which is about 116,000 psi and a yield strength of 640 N/mm2, or 92,820 psi.
Grade 8 SAE (150,000 psi tensile strength) is equivalent to a Metric class 10.9. A metric class 8.8 bolt is equivalent to a SAE Grade 5 bolt.
So you should be looking for a Metric class 10.9 fastener, preferably with a rolled thread. Most hardware stores would not carry a bolt of this strength. I would be looking for a shouldered bolt.
Grades and classes only have to do with the strength of a bolt. Hardness can be used to measure strength, but if you change the alloy, hardness can drop, and the bolt can still be a higher strength.
Secondly, if I could take a look at the fracture faces of the broken motor mount bolts, I can tell you if the failure was due to overload or fatigue, or due to a defect in the bolt. Please photograph the fractured bolt head so I xan look at it. There are telltale signs for specific types of failures. If you are going to purchase an aftermarket bolt, you should know the reason why you are replacing the OEM bolt. This will guide your purchase.