That looks like the correct orientation. The first time I tried it and got it wrong, I was trying to get the raised sections to interface...which was definitely not right. If you don't hear a difference or think it's working properly, then you might need to shine a light into the male connector end to see if you pushed in one or both of the pins like I did. I ended up cutting off the heat shrink and pushing the pin back through from the backside of the connector, because the little grommet was making it difficult to pull forward with a pair of needle nose pliers. I replaced the heat shrink to ensure everything stayed protected...which gave me a good excuse to get a heat gun
Because I'm on a base tune I'm only running 15psig at the moment so it's hard to hear the bov doing anything really. I hear turbo spool/whine and a small flutter on throttle close which I'm not a fan of but that's it.
Thanks for the pointers