You guys are doing it all wrong. Been married for over 30 years now and since I first got married, I've been setting aside money every week into a separate account. Been able to buy all sorts of stuff like all of my carbon framed bicycles, firearms, reloading equipment, car performance parts, etc. With that said, I'm a year or so off from having enough to buy a Mustang GT and putting a supercharger on it among other parts.