Edit: Also, to update, I DID end up just popping the white part off and moving the wire. I recommend using the high setting, it doesn't glare THAT bad at night and looks great during the day!
So for anyone about to try to tackle the pin swap, unless you are very well experienced in these electrical connectors, DO NOT follow the pics shown in the first post that has you completely removing the white wire separator, follow VirtualRonin's video guide
HERE where you just pop the white part up slightly to unlock the wires.
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Just pop that white thing up slightly like this using a small flathead in the slots you can see in the top and bottom middle of the white wire separator. At this point you can pull out pin 6 to move to pin 9 and close the white thing back in fully.
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I made the mistake of taking that all apart, and with varying wire and pin and connector quality I am now stuck with a mess of twisted pinsI can't get straightened out to get back together for a good mating of each wire with the female headlight end, UGH.