Well I just chuckled to myself when you first mentioned it, but I legit LOLed at the pictures. Do you have no shame, sir?!
But to OP's question, I run 195/55/R16 for winter and I think it's ideal for a winter where you don't get a ton of snow, but like to have peace of mind when you do get it. Not sure if 195/60 would be too soft, but it very well could be. If you get a lot of snow and occasional ice, then I would say 185/60 for the reasons Bryan noted.