After removing my broken mount and swapping it for a new one, I used some vise grips and a crescent wrench to remove what was left of the old bolt from the motor mount.
The bolt that fails is held in to the mount with some sort of thread locking compound, not impossible to remove by hand but it was a pain in the butt.
After the broken bolt was out, I looked and there is plenty of meat to drill out the mount and tap it with a larger thread, 9/16" fine thread is looking good.
The depth of the hole looked to be about 48mm including the aluminum bracket. There were several threads engaged in the hole, I think a 40mm bolt would be fine for people who want to replace the stock fastener. 50mm with a stack of washers might work too.
I didn't like what I had to do to remove the mount so what I might do is use a 9/16" stud with fine threads in the motor mount and coarse threads on top, then make a sleeve with a crush strength equivalent to a M12 10.9 bolt so that if I apply too much torque I'll crush the tube and make the mount loose and noisy rather than break outright. If there was enough force to break the stud, it would break at the coarse thread, hopefully leaving me enough stud to grab with vise grips and remove in the car for a quick fix without motor mount replacement.
Looking around, Dorman makes a 9/16" stud about the right size and costs about $22 for 10 of them in Grade 8 strength (it's a wheel stud I think).
I looked at proof loads and 9/16" coarse thread is about 73.4% greater than M12 10.9 so that's my upgrade path.