Eh, I see what you mean. While I say that my car is stage 2, it's fairly different from a simple Cobb stage 2. Just having the TBP braces makes a big difference, not in power delivery, but how it gets to the ground.
Somehow, Cobb made stage packages and everyone went with it. When you get a big turbo, you end up outside of those stage packages. When you look at euro spec, their stage are completely different, with stage 3 being a big turbo, but even then it seems dependent on the manufacturer.
My car is Cobb stage 2, but since no one else is doing stage package, it's stage 2.
In the past I was hearing people talking about other cars and be like "wow this car is stage 2" or "hehe my Civic is stage 3!", but this doesn't mean jack shit to anyone that don't know the specific about your car. Within FiST owner here, I believe we know what we mean by each stage (and FoST owner should be able to relate, it's so similar), but talking to a GTI owner, you would lost him. The GTI tuning strategies are so different, it's another planet entirely.
I don't know where I'm going with that, but I basically agree with you. I don't know why a big turbo is not considered a stage package in our car. They could have stage 1 as FMIC and stage 1+ as turboback and stage 2 as hybrid and stage 3 big turbo.
But Cobb doesn't sell turbos, so that's why.