I didn't like the Recaros. Other people love them. Try both.
The other options are nav, which you don't really need if you have carplay, but it's nice. My nav found an address that carplay couldn't. TBF, my carplay found an address the nav couldn't. Yay, redundancy!
Wheel and caliper colors. I like the black and red with metallic. Looks good with all 4 available colors, but it's cosmetic. If you're planning on getting other wheels, skip it.
I love my sunroof. More competition-oriented drivers don't want it.
The FiST is small, raw and sporty. The SHO is big, fast and comfortable. Burns more gas, too.