Race Red is easily the best color choice! I had to chuckle when you mentioned a boyfriend--I gotta admit, I wasn't exactly thinking of "sparky" as a woman. The Mazdaspeed3 is a great car, from what I hear, but the Neon . . . well, let's just move along, shall we?
Glad to welcome you to the site. Hope it's proving helpful. If you've got suggestions, etc., please bring 'em up. My car is a daily-driver, too. I'll probably never do too many mods to mine, but I might consider some down the road. I am thinking seriously about doing some autocrossing this summer. I've never done any before, but it sounds like fun, so . . . .
I'm also planning on heading out to Utah for the
ST Octane Academy thing in June. Their main site is
here. It's free to attend, though there is a $105.95 insurance liability waiver that at least limits liability should one damage one of their cars. It's a reception the night before, followed by a one-day driving course. Travel and lodging costs are of course the responsibility of the attendees. I'm hoping to grab a bunk at a brother-in-law's house, and will probably just drive out.