I spent the first 22 years of my life in San Fernando Valley. I travelled to coastal Virginia, Seattle, Huntsville, Juno, and Anchorage for work. I liked some of the areas but not enough to consider moving. Then I spent some time in Pittsburgh. I moved almost immediately and haven't looked back.
There are blue and red areas but neither are too extreme, the weather is mild, both in winter and summer; we see snow and have have beautiful autumns, property taxes are reasonable outside of Pittsburgh proper, the economy is healthy (now) and diverse, access to good schools (as long as you live outside of the Pittsburgh school district or send your kids to a charter school) and health care is very good. I can ski/snowboard with a 20 minute drive, have access so some of the most beautiful forest regions in 15 minutes, and drive 35 miles to work in 45 minutes.
The roads suck and the motorsport scene is lacking. Also, the county in which I live, Westmoreland, has one of the highest, if not the highest, average age.., so the drivers suck, too. In fact, I'm not sure if the sucking-drivers issue has anything to do with their age, but they definitely suck.