For another perspective... Check out FlyingMiata it Good-Win racing for nice lug nuts, the alloy ones I would replace every couple of years, but quite nice, either open or closed or long, they have a nice shoulder for a socket to avoid wheel damage, torque to 85 ft/lb. The Miata uses M12X1.5 also.
On the other side of the spectrum are the cheap “tuner” lugs are terrible design with a sharp shoulder that damages wheels and loosens due to this, just terrible stuff. I like lightweight open lugs in rounded tip 2.5” ARP studs, stronger, lighter, better, and they look right to me. The Ti ones are decent but always use plenty of anti-seize, same as aluminum. Open lugs can be steel and with a nice shoulder, nice if you swap wheels often.