This is not a torque wrench issue. To answer your question, these are brand new (less than a year). The lug nuts are proper - the seat matches the wheel. And, metallurgically speaking, these are high-cycle failures, and have nothing to do with torquing. The nuts would have to be quite loose to arrive at this. And, just because you haven't heard of anybody breaking studs, doesn't mean that this can't happen - clearly, it is an issue here. I am fairly certain that this is an issue of mismatched (bad tolerances) centering rings. I have new coming in tomorrow - so, we'll see. [Notwithstanding the root cause, the quality of Ford studs leaves much to be desired.]
My question was, however, if anyone has suggestions on the stronger studs - still wondering.