Possibly crazy idea/question, based on possibly false assumptions, but prioritizes weight above all other decision criteria: Stock FMIC (which is the lightest option) + more efficient turbo? (hybrid, etc?)
My possibly incorrect assumption is that a more efficient turbo would create less heat overall at higher rpms for a net benefit in power sufficient for your power and weight goals. Hybrid turbos use the same stock frame and are possibly the exact same weight as stock.
Crazy Idea #1 Variant #2: the DHM quickspool kit has a tubular header which is most likely lighter than the stock cast iron manifold.
Crazy/Oddball idea #2: DHM Crashbar + Stock FMIC + Stock Turbo + WMI Setup (tank in the rear). (DHM has a lighter rear crashbar I think)