Quick update:
I ordered a revised tune from Stratified. Pretty cheap ($25 I think without options) but added the $50 for the log review. So I got the first tune which was based on my new mods (DP, filter, plugs) and loaded it and then did a few logged pulls to send back.
Last night I got the revised tune based on my logs and drove it to work like that today. They've asked me to send more logs to confirm the changes had the intended effects. So far this latest log-based tune feels like it does indeed pull harder up top. Sort of feels like I lost some low end torque which would make sense if they turned down the boost (looks like consistently peaking in the low 25s now and was 26s). I may mention that to see if I can have the best of both. AFRs seem to be solidly in the low to mid elevens. I am kind of thinking 12s would make more power and with direct injection would be safe but perhaps their experience proves otherwise. Overall I think the retune was worth it.
Lastly, even they are seeing the high rise in charge air temps. This one would be a 3rd gear pull as the 4th gear charge temps are more than double with the long time it takes pulling to 7000.
I think the next move I need is to work on a different intercooler if I can figure out which one will keep temps lower but also be suitable for the engine staying cool at track days. Might be a matter of a mish radiator, extra cooling sourec, and then whatever intercooler I want (maybe DHM race) to achieve that.
P.S. Clutch seems to be grabbing pretty high now. I can upshift by barely pressing it in (maybe as little as an inch and a half). Starting to think perhaps the torque is eating the stock clutch. I drive the car hard every day.