Words, words, words.
A few things of note before that:
1.) Nobody cares. Your chest beating "look at my life" bravado doesn't count for shit here.
2.) Do you even have a point to all of this? I also work in IT in software development, except instead of focusing on "problems" that nobody has and offering no solution at the same time, my team focuses on defeating technical debt and actual obstacles. You're exactly the kind of person who doesn't offer any meaningful contribution to any project I've ever been on due to an inability to focus on the project instead of some idiotic detail nobody cares about with no clear benefit, but have been forced to work with anyways; because management.
3.) I'm dumping this community because of people like you, but not totally because of you; so don't give yourself too much credit. As Dyn085 and Hijinx mentioned earlier, there has been a long standing push to move this platform/community to an opinion-based hive mind that focuses on following trends and swallowing the latest garbage that a vendor will put out without asking real questions and (God forbid) data to prove their shit actually works. But no, we're obsessed with bullshit "stages" and cosmetic modifications more than we are actually innovating the platform. You people fight about intakes and downpipes (if only you people knew how much sales margin comes out of perpetuating this crap) and wasting money on horseshit when you can just get a damned intercooler, bolt on a bigger turbo (A real one), and get a tune for it to make more power and spend less money than this staged crap. It's not that hard to figure this shit out.
Opinions don't equate facts. They never will. I see this shit in society all over the place. It needs to end because it is stunting progress.
Oh one more thing...
You're wrong. Flat out wrong.